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Splitting bills with roommates
Put it in writing before the first bill: each person's share of rent and every utility, the due date, who pays the landlord, whose name each bill is in, and what happens to the deposit and a roommate who leaves early. If you all signed one lease, each of you can be on the hook for the whole rent.
You'll need
- Your lease
- A list of every shared bill and its account holder
- A free roommate agreement template
- A payment app or a shared spreadsheet
What to know
- Fill in the basics of a written roommate agreement: the lease dates, total monthly rent, what each person pays, and the day rent is due. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2
- Pick a payment setup. Either each roommate pays the landlord and keeps their own receipt, or one "tenant bookkeeper" collects everyone's share a set number of days early and pays the landlord once. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2
- List every utility (electricity, gas, water and sewer, trash, internet) and the percentage each person pays. Write down whose name each bill is in, and agree to pay that person directly. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2
- Agree that whoever misses the deadline pays any late fee, the way Ohio State's sample agreement does. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2
- Write down what each person paid toward the security deposit and how you'll split it when it comes back: equal shares, or charging damage to whoever caused it. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2 Landlords often hold the whole deposit until every original signer has moved out. Source: GW1
- Agree on what happens if someone leaves early. Do they have to find a replacement? Do the rest of you get to approve that person? The sample agreement keeps the person who left paying their share until the lease ends or a replacement starts paying. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2
Monthly bill text
Hey! Bills for [month]: electric $[amount], internet $[amount]. Your half is $[amount]. Can you send it by [day]? Screenshots of both bills are below.
A friendly nudge when it's late
Hey, just a reminder your share of [bill] ($[amount]) was due [day]. Can you send it today? I already paid the full bill so the account doesn't get a late fee.
When it keeps happening
I've covered your share of rent or bills [number] times now. Our agreement says shares are due by [day] and whoever's late pays the late fee. Can we sit down this week and figure out what would make the due date work for you?
Before someone moves out
Since you're moving out [date], can we settle up? Here's what I show: your share of the last [bills] is $[amount], and your part of the deposit is $[amount] once the landlord returns it. Does that match what you have?
See it done
Video by Adulting Shouldn't Suck Independent creator
What's the Best Way to Pay Rent with Roommates?
2022 · Checked October 3, 2026
Heads up: they don't mention that if you all signed one lease, each of you can owe the whole rent (step 1). Put your split in writing.
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If it doesn't work
- Sending money to a new roommate for the first time? Ask them to send a request from the app, or send a small test payment first. Source: CFPB4
- Got a sudden "send me rent here instead" message from a roommate's account? Talk to them in person or by phone first. It could be a hacker who got into their account. Source: FTC3
- Money showed up in the app but you can't use it? Money you receive goes to your app balance first, not your bank account, and you may have to transfer it. Source: FTC3 Plan for that before rent day.
- Paid a scammer through an app? Report it to the app and at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Source: FTC3
- Arguing about it? See Disagreeing without a fight.
Good to know
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A worked split (made-up example)
Rent is $1,800 for a two-bedroom. Sam's room is bigger and has its own bathroom, so Sam pays $1,000 and Jordan pays $800. The electric and internet bills are in Jordan's name, so each month Jordan posts the totals in the group chat and Sam pays half within three days. Rent goes to Sam, the bookkeeper, five days before the 1st.
A money-talk script (made-up example)
"Before the first bill comes, can we sit down for 30 minutes and fill out an agreement? I'd like to cover rent, utilities, late fees and the deposit, so neither of us has to guess later."
Insurance is separate too
Renters insurance covers your belongings, not your roommate's. Some insurers let roommates buy joint coverage, but rules vary by state and company, and a partner usually has to be named on the policy. Source: Triple-I5
Keep a record
If each roommate pays the landlord directly, each keeps their own receipts. Source: Ohio State Legal Services2 With a bookkeeper, keep the app history or bank statements that show what you sent.
Take it with you
Printable cardDownload card (PDF)Sources
- George Washington University Off-Campus Student Affairs Joint and several liability
- Ohio State University Student Legal Services Roommate agreement
- Federal Trade Commission Mobile payment apps: how to avoid a scam when you use one
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Helpful tips for using mobile payment services
- Insurance Information Institute Insurance industry group Renters insurance
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