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988: when and how to reach out
Call or text 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org, 24/7. It's free, confidential, and you don't have to be suicidal: money stress, a breakup, loneliness, substance use or worry about a friend all count. A trained counselor asks about your safety, listens, and shares local resources. Most contacts are handled without 911; police or EMS are involved only when there's an immediate risk to someone's life. If a friend tells you about a plan to hurt themselves, don't keep it secret. Call 988 with them or for them.
You'll need
- A phone or a device with internet
What to know
- Save 988 in your phone now, so it's there when you need it.
- Reach out for any emotional distress, not only thoughts of suicide. Reasons to call include substance use, money worries, relationships, identity, illness, partner violence, depression and loneliness. Source: 988 Lifeline1
- Pick how you want to connect: call 988, text any message to 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org. All three are available 24 hours a day. Source: 988 Lifeline1
- Know what happens on a call. You hear a greeting and a short menu; press 1 for the Veterans Crisis Line, 2 for Spanish, or 0 to skip the menu. Otherwise you're routed to a local crisis center based on your approximate location or area code, and to a national backup center if the local one is busy. Source: SAMHSA5
- Calling about someone else? You can. Calls go to a local center that can tell you what resources are near you. Source: 988 Lifeline3
Warning signs in yourself or a friend
Take these seriously, especially if they're new, getting worse, or follow a painful loss or change. Source: NIMH988 Lifeline64
| Type | Signs |
|---|---|
| Talking about | Wanting to die, great guilt or shame, being a burden, feeling trapped or having no reason to live |
| Feeling | Empty, hopeless, extremely sad, more anxious, agitated or full of rage; unbearable pain |
| Doing | Making a plan or researching ways to die; withdrawing, saying goodbye, giving things away; dangerous risks like driving very fast; using more alcohol or drugs; sleeping or eating much more or less; extreme mood swings |
If a friend is struggling
- Be direct. Ask openly and matter-of-factly about suicide. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Listen and accept their feelings. Don't lecture or debate whether suicide is right or wrong. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Don't act shocked, and never dare them. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Don't agree to keep it secret. Get support. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Help keep them safe by removing things like weapons or pills. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Help them connect to 988 or other help, and follow up afterward. Source: 988 Lifeline3
- Take care of yourself too. Supporting someone can bring up hard feelings, and you can call 988 for you. Source: 988 Lifeline3
Words that can help
To a friend: "I've noticed you've seemed [down / not yourself / really stressed] lately. I care about you. Are you thinking about suicide?" If yes: "Thank you for telling me. I'm staying with you. Let's call or text 988 together."
To 988, if you're not sure what to say: "I'm not sure this counts, but I'm having a really hard time and I need to talk to someone."
See it done
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If it doesn't work
- Trouble connecting by text or chat? Call 988 instead. Source: 988 Lifeline2
- Feedback about your experience? Use the contact form at 988lifeline.org/contact-us. Source: 988 Lifeline2
Good to know
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Will police show up?
Most people who reach out are helped by the counselor, resources or community connections without 911. A small share of contacts need 911, when there's an imminent risk to life that can't be reduced during the call, and many of those happen with the caller's consent. Source: SAMHSA5
Privacy
988 routes calls by approximate location, not your precise GPS location. Source: SAMHSA5 Whether 988 shows up on a phone bill depends on your carrier. Source: 988 Lifeline2
Other languages
Text AYUDA to 988 or press 2 for Spanish. Interpretation in more than 240 other languages is free. Source: 988 LifelineSAMHSA15
Deaf and hard of hearing
TTY users can use a relay service or dial 711 then 988, and there's a 988 videophone for ASL users. Source: 988 Lifeline1
Veterans and service members
Call 988 and press 1, or text 838255. Source: 988 Lifeline1
After a disaster
The Disaster Distress Helpline is 1-800-985-5990, call or text. Source: 988 Lifeline1
Take it with you
Printable cardDownload card (PDF)Sources
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Get help
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline FAQ
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Help someone else
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Warning signs
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration 988 frequently asked questions
- National Institute of Mental Health Warning signs of suicide
- MedlinePlus (National Library of Medicine) When to use the emergency room
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